"They could always use him as leverage against me-'We don't need you we have Patrick"-which they did for years," she explained.Ībsent McDreamy, ABC was extra incentivized to hold onto the Grey in Grey's. Because after years of trying to work with costar Patrick Dempsey to negotiate a joint top-tier deal ("He was never interested," she told THR) she glimpsed her window of opportunity when he exited the drama in 2015. Really, though, they've already received the best lesson in numbers from Mom. You know, it's a half cup of this, and a quarter cup of this." "I'm actually a terrible baker," she admitted to Us Weekly, "but I think baking is such a great way to teach them math. Off the clock, Pompeo makes time for family hikes with her brood-though she admits Sienna is "a little iffy" on the situation, tending to get tired halfway up-and helps them refuel with their own homemade kitchen creations. I've got my little challenges, but they're insignificant compared to what real working moms go through." So I think everything in my life is a blessing. She's not in preschool yet so she can spend time on set with me. I can afford help and I'm fortunate where I can bring her here if I miss her. "I'm in a very blessed situation," Pompeo told E! News back in 2012, long before Stella and Eli made their appearances. They are who they are and they were fine when you married them, so don't expect them to change."Īnd the ABC star had managed to navigate the whole working mom situation thanks to Rhimes' liberal bring your child to work policy and outside assistance she's refreshingly honest about. "That was of utmost importance to me." Eli Christopher rounded out the family in late 2016.īy then she and Ivery (a man she describes as "a fantastic guy" with "so much swag") had long since hit their stride with Pompeo telling Us Weekly her best marriage guidance is "don't try to change people. Stella Luna Pompeo Ivery joined them in 2009, followed by Sienna May, whose 2014 arrival Pompeo kept quiet for months. "I felt an obligation to keep the surrogate's privacy," she explained on Jimmy Kimmel Live! in October 2014, just hours after she announced her new addition. Friday morning, we woke up, went to City Hall, had the wedding really quick, and then we went to a waffle lunch after." Their honeymoon: A Knicks game before they flew back to their life on the West Coast. "So we flew out on a redeye Thursday night. "At that point, I was really dying for privacy," she explained to Kelly Ripa and Ryan Seacrestin 2017. "I didn't have a mother to tell me how amazing I was." But the transition wasn't entirely seamless. "You can't get out of where I come from if you're a wallflower," she told the mag. Growing up in an outsized family in an Italian-Irish neighborhood Pompeo has equated to the backdrop of the bloody mob drama The Departed made her tough. The rest of her childhood wasn't all that much easier. As she summed up to Good Housekeeping, "My life started out with tragedy." So, yeah, she and Meredith not so far apart in that regard.Īnd not unlike a the future medical savant, the actress went through her own childhood trauma. One of Pompeo's earliest memories is of her older siblings (she is the youngest of six) trying to revive their mom after she suffered a fatal overdose. "I wanted to show my struggles, that it isn't easy," she explained to E!, "but if you're bold and you do speak up and if you do say unpopular things then you just might be part of some change." Rather, she was handing women the roadmap to uncovering their own well-earned treasure. She wasn't being a braggart or showing just how far she'd come from her humble upbringing. Rather when you become so successful at giving life to the same character for so long, it can be hard to determine where the dark and twisty surgeon ends and Pompeo herself begins.
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10 just two days before Grey's season 17 premiere-is some sort of enigma or the crazily secretive type. It's not so much that Pompeo-who turns 51 Nov.
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Other than that, well.she seems pretty cool.
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Most devoted Grey's Anatomy fans can rattle off any number of facts about the show's title character Meredith Grey: Grew up the daughter of brilliant, but austere, surgeon Ellis Grey, married former boss Derek Shepherd on a Post-it Note, considers Cristina Yang as her person, almost died from a bomb explosion, hypothermia, a plane crash and a rogue gunman.īut far less is known about the woman who deftly embodies her each week. If asked to name some details about Ellen Pompeo, your average viewer would probably know that she's a mom (she and music producer husband Chris Ivery, 53, share daughters Stella, 11, and Sienna, 6, and 3-year-old son Eli) and that she brilliantly negotiated her way to becoming the highest-paid actress on a TV drama.